Consent at Skirt Club: Why It's at the Heart of Everything We Do

If you're new to Skirt Club, or even if you've been with us for years, we want you to know something clearly and warmly: consent is our utmost priority. It is not an afterthought here - it's the foundation of every single party we host, non-negotiable, always. It's also a big part of why Skirt Club is a private members club. 

Knowing every woman who walks through our doors means we can truly vouch for the safety of our space - and hold everyone within it to the same high standard. You deserve to feel completely safe, seen, and in control of your experience from the moment you walk into any of our private events. 

So let's talk about it openly, the way we talk about everything at Skirt Club.

You never have to do anything you don't want to do.

The evening is truly yours to shape as you desire. Coming to a Skirt Club party doesn't mean you've said yes to anything beyond being in a beautiful, safe space with other women. Whether you want to play, connect, socialise, or simply soak it all in, that is entirely your call, every step of the way. 

There are no expectations here, only possibilities.

Consent is a conversation, not a checkbox.

One of the most important things we hold at Skirt Club is that consent isn't a single moment, it flows throughout the entire evening. It can look like a whispered "is this okay?", a smile and a nod, or simply checking in before things move somewhere new. It shifts as you shift. You're allowed to change your mind at any point, full stop.

And it goes both ways. When you approach another woman, we invite you to come with curiosity rather than assumption “I'd love to explore something with you” rather than “I want to do this to you.” That small shift creates space for something far more intimate and connected than pursuit ever could.
 

Yes, no, and maybe are all complete answers.

A ‘yes’ at Skirt Club doesn't have to be thunderbolt certainty. It can be a quiet, genuine "I'm open to this." That's enough.

A ‘no’ is always, always respected - no explanation needed, no awkwardness required. The culture we've built here means a ‘no’ is simply honoured and the evening carries on warmly.

And a ‘maybe’? That's not confusion - it's intimacy, darling. Something in you is curious, and something isn't quite there yet. And sometimes, that ‘maybe’ is where the most beautiful moments are born. There is a vulnerability in saying "I'm not sure yet" and at Skirt Club, that vulnerability is handled with care, tenderness, and pride. It can unlock a confidence you didn't know you had. Share what the yes part is, have a conversation, and let it unfold from there. What often comes out of that honesty is something far more connected - and far more surprising - than either person expected.

We're human, and a soft check-in is always welcome.

Sometimes things get misread. Someone's energy shifts and you're not sure why. You realise you may have accidentally overstepped. It happens, and it doesn't have to become a big moment.

We encourage a simple, kind check-in: "I just want to make sure we're good. Did I overstep anything?" 

That's it. No shame, no drama, just two people being honest with each other. Having the language to do this quickly means everyone gets back to having a wonderful evening feeling even more connected than before.

Our team is always here

You are never navigating any of this alone. Our ambassadors, hostesses, and event managers are present throughout every party to make sure everyone feels welcome, safe, and supported. No question is too small, no feeling too minor. Please always feel free to come and find one of us, we're easy to spot and always happy to help.

Creating a space where every woman feels safe, respected, and completely free to be herself is our highest priority, and a deep responsibility we don't take lightly. 

You came here to connect, to explore, and to feel good. We came here to make sure you can do exactly that, safely, on your own terms, in a space that is unwavering in its care for you.

Welcome to Skirt Club